Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Is it wrong to let my nephew listen to my music?

I have a six year old nephew who holds the key to my heart and I am what you might call %26#039;gothic%26#039; his mother is very religious and she gets upset when she learns that I let my nephew listen to my music with me, even if it is edited or doesn%26#039;t have cuss words in it at all.


Now I know she is the child%26#039;s mother but I have played a much larger role than her, I helped potty train him,helped him learn how to walk, i taught him how to ride a bike,tie his shoes, and I think of him as my own kid so who%26#039;s in the wrong here?

Is it wrong to let my nephew listen to my music?
no. You are not wrong. I believe if the only thing the kid ever see%26#039;s or hears is loddy doddy gospel music...that he will never be able to form his own opinion of what he likes. Just tell your nephew it%26#039;s a secret between you two!
Reply:She probably has formed some unjustified prejedices against your music for whatever reasons she may have. If your music has no cursing or immoral messages, I don%26#039;t really understand what problem she has with it, HOWEVER since you love the kid so much it%26#039;s best to do what Mommy wants. She has the control to take away any time you spend with him.
Reply:she is his mother but it sounds like you are a lot like his mohter too. I don%26#039;t think it is wrong.
Reply:Dime bar?
Reply:%26quot;but I have played a much larger role than her,%26quot;


you AREN%26#039;T HIS MOTHER, and you may just lose all privileges to him if you continue to do things that are against her beliefs. Your choices are, a. honor her wishes..she IS the mom, or b. walk out of his life now, before she closes the door due to YOUR stubbornness. She is trying to do the right thing by him, and raise him right...not %26#039;goth%26#039;. Have your own damn kid. Ruin him.
Reply:Yeah, but she%26#039;s his MOM. SHE had to go through Childbirth.


Let her have some say, and when the kid gets old enough, let him make the decision on his own.
Reply:Well, she is his mom. However, I don%26#039;t believe in hiding the world from children; doing so insures a curious mind will have to find out for itself, insuring trouble, as it will do so unsupervised otherwise.
Reply:although you have played a larger role than she. She is still the mother and that carries a lot of weight. i would recommend that you talk to mom first. if you don%26#039;t you could create a major problem that doesn%26#039;t have to be.



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